Introduction:
My interest in Mangalorean customs and traditions now takes me to “Marriage” customs and traditions and although not an expert in this genre, I have always aspired to know and learn more. Having done some research on this subject coupled with some of my life experiences, I have chosen to write on the “Mangalorean marriage customs and traditions” for the benefit of those who have limited knowledge and are seeking some guidance on this issue.
Marriage is a sacred institution, a blessing from God and this is a universal truth. Marriage customs and traditions however, differ from country to country, community to community and in India from culture to culture.
Indian weddings are extravagant and full of grandeur. The rituals in the olden days were far more elaborate than today where most of the customs are ignored or overlooked and weddings are shortened from the customary ten days to maybe two or three days maximum. The contemporary wedding receptions on the other hand are held on such a grand scale which more than makes up for the entire ten day celebrations of yester year.
Many today aspire to follow the traditional customs even with limited resources and in limited circumstances if only to define the rich mangalorean culture that we should all be proud of. Many of the customs are also similar to Goan marriage customs due in fact to our ancestral links.
In an effort to remind us of the old customs and to apprise of the modern day customs, I will briefly describe the Mangalorean marriage customs and traditions “Then” and “Now” and in the sequence they were performed.
2.Finalising the Alliance “Sairik’
4.Reading Of Banns “Chiti Vaschyo”
6.Wedding Garments/Jewellery “Sado” ETC.
8.Wedding Pandal/Gifts of Food Etc. ” Kazara Matov”
13.Wedding Reception “Kazara Jevon”
14. Mother-In-Law’s Gift of Ring to Son-In-Law “Maain Mudi Shivnchem”
15. Solemn transferment of Bride to Bridegrooms’s family “Opsun Divnchem”
17. Conclusion & Post wedding ceremonies
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Continued………………. 1. Match-Making “Sairik”
References: Severine Silva and Stephen Fuchs & Victor D’sa, S.V.D.: The Marriage Customs of the Christians in South Canara, India
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